This week I want to get right into a simple 5 step method for meeting those hot women you see walking around on the street. The street of any city or town is one of the best places for meeting women, and certainly a great place to practice your approach and build your confidence.

For many guys – myself included – this is the hardest part of trying to get laid. Sure, it seems so simple to just walk across the street to an attractive woman and say hi, but the big question for most guys is, “What do you say after that?” Well, this is definitely one instance where you have to get most of those sexy thoughts you’re having about her out of your head before you start talking to her!

THE NUMBER ONE RULE OF GETTING LAID:

DON’T THINK ABOUT GETTING LAID!

Putting all those nasty thoughts out of your mind – for the time being anyway – will give you a much better chance to appear suave and in control – two qualities that women can’t fail to be attracted to! Once you’ve done that, you’ll be able to get the most out of the following method of meeting those gorgeous women that cross your path every day.

ALL IN YOUR MIND

Remember, there’s nothing physically to stop you from talking to any woman you want to, anywhere or any time. Nobody’s going to come up and shoot you just for trying to get to know a pretty woman, and – using this method at least – nobody’s going to put you in jail. So you have nothing to lose. Just always remember to be polite, respectful and maintain eye contact. The crucial thing is really timing, so you have to have your shit together.

THE FIVE SECOND WINDOW

You basically have a five second “window of opportunity” in which you can make enough of a connection with a woman and get talking with her. How do you do this? You have to ask her a question that isn’t easily answered by a quick, dismissive “Yes” or “No” answer. That way, she’ll be forced to actually interact with you – and she just may find that she likes it! One way that always works for me is to ask directions.

THE 5 STEP METHOD OF MEETING WOMEN ON THE STREET

Go to an area that you already know pretty well. When you see a woman you’d like to talk to, go up and ask her directions for a place that is in the direction she’s going. (This is why you have to know the neighborhood.)

When she tells you, it’s just up here – of course in the direction she’s headed – you now have the perfect chance to talk to her, since you’re now walking in the same direction.

Now you want to keep her talking. What do women – or anyone - like to talk about the most? Themselves! Ask her about some item of jewelery or clothing she’s wearing. Keep your comments light and non-sexual. Since you’ve now broken the ice, she’ll likely be more relaxed and no doubt whatever you ask about will have some story attached to it. Remember to let her talk as much as you can get her to – don’t try to impress her with a huge dose of your personality and opinions at this point.

Once you get to the place you asked directions for, you should be safely able to say, “Well, it’s been really nice talking to you. I’d really like to do it again.” Then whip out a pad and pen and say, “Here. Write down your number and I’ll call you.” Don’t ask for the number, and make sure you’re prepared with the means to write it down – the pad and pen - which you then hand right to her. You’ve just made it so easy for her to give you her number that she’s not likely to refuse – especially if you’ve made a good impression on her so far!

If all else fails, you can tell her the truth – that you didn’t really need the directions, you just saw her walking along and you just had to meet her. As long as you don’t act all creepy about it, you’ll find that most women find that kind of romantic impulse in a man very attractive indeed!

If she doesn’t want to give you her number, don’t be pushy about it, just thank her for the fun conversation and move on. The important thing to remember is not to take rejection personally! You’ll no doubt meet a lot of women who don’t appreciate or need the attention – in those cases, just let them go and move on to the next babe.

A lot of guys defeat themselves from the start by having the attitude that all women find it annoying to be approached by guys trying to meet them. The hard fact is that a lot of women are vain and/or insecure, constantly worried about whether they have what it takes to attract men. They can say otherwise, but look around you and you’ll see this is very true.

Once you’ve approached enough women, you’ll find that a certain amount of them will really welcome your attention, as long as you act in a reasonable manner.